This blog was written by co-editor Cheryl Clemens:

Big meal, presents, decorated tree, out-of-town company, long distance phone calls … I’m already getting stressed about Christmas day.

Here is what I’ve decided to keep in mind that day to keep everything in perspective and actually enjoy myself:

1. Everything doesn’t have to be perfect. In fact, it’s the imperfect moments that we seem to remember most fondly. So be flexible and laugh things off.

2. Don’t rush. Be aware of what is going on and drink it in. The day will be over before you know it so remember to stop a few times and just look around at who is there and what is going on.

3. Let the kids help. Will they make a mess? Probably. But they will have so much more fun being a part of the action and helping the grownups. And if you have to clean something up, so what? It will be worth it to see the looks on their faces.

4. Make time to call those out of town. A lot of times this slips through the cracks because the day is so hectic, but it means so much to those who can’t be with you. Even if you just leave a message, that friend or relative will know you were thinking of them and set aside time to connect with them.

5. Make physical contact. Hug, kiss, touch someone’s arm or shoulder, pick up the kids, snuggle the babies. Even if you’re not a touchy-feely person, today is the day to be close and connect — emotionally, spiritually and physically. Even the smallest gestures send a big message. Plus it just feels nice.

If you have any tips you’d like to share, please add them.